How To Attract & Bang Hot Asian Women
If you’re interested in meeting hot Asian women, first I want to ask you one very important question. When it comes to women, do you believe in abundance, or do you believe in scarcity? This is the key factor that separates the “babe magnets” from the average, frustrated chumps.
Guys who have a scarcity mentality believe that single, attractive women are in very short supply. Therefore, they feel they need to chase women, try to impress them, and spend money. Once they’re into a girl, they’ll do anything it takes to date them!
“Scarcity guys” are always getting hung up on one particular girl. And if the girl rejects him or gives him the “I like you…as a friend” speech, he feels frustrated and depressed because he worries that these opportunities rarely come along. He tells himself that he “blew his big chance.”
Then, there are the guys who believe in abundance. These guys know that the universe has provided us with an endless supply of fun, sexy, single women. (Which is the truth, when you’ve got a healthy level of self-confidence and the skills to meet new women.)
These guys know that where they live, and the places where they hang out, contain any number of great options for having fun and meeting girls. They know how to approach women and form connections with them.
The “abundance attitude” guy knows there are literally an endless number of women who want to be with him! (And this is very true if he’s able to make occasional trips to Asia.) Therefore, there is no reason for him to worry about finding a girlfriend right now, or worrying about whether a particular girl will ever return his phone call.
In reality, this world we live in is FILLED with opportunities—especially if you possess the right level of confidence and an understanding of how to attract women (instead of having to always pursue them).
Want To Bang Hot Asian Girls? Make Her Value Your Time
The other part of having an abundance mentality is that YOU become “scarce” to women. In other words, you are not always available to them.
Being a “scarce resource” to hot Asian women means:
• You don’t give one woman all of your time and attention. You never act clingy or needy. This type of guy repels hot Asian women, because the men in their culture keep their emotions in check. “Real” men in Asia don’t whine, complain or act needy.
• You don’t lavish gifts on her, or spend an unnecessary amount of money on dates. You know that having her meet you for coffee or drinks is much better for a first date than taking her out to an expensive dinner. (I’ll cover this more later, in our chapter on Dating Tactics.)
• You’re not available to talk to her on the phone or chat on the internet whenever she is in the mood, or see her any night of the week that she’s free to see you.
Once you start meeting new hot Asian women on a regular basis and getting them attracted to you, and then limit your availability so they don’t always have access to you, you’ll be amazed by how much harder they are going to work for your attention.
My rule of thumb with hot Asian women: When I’m spending time with a girl, I give her my complete, undivided attention. I make her feel special. But when I’m not with her, she knows that I’m a busy guy with things to do and business to handle. She’s not going to get a response whenever she texts my phone to see what I’m up to. I make it clear to women that my time is valuable and limited.
(This also makes it easier to “juggle” a few different girls; they won’t complain about you not always being available, as long as you establish the fact that you are busy man.) The other benefit is that women will appreciate the time you do spend with them, because they know you have a lot of other things you could be doing.
There’s a phrase that salesmen and marketers use, which is called “perceived value.” This means is if you create the perception that your product is scarce and in short supply—whether it’s true or not—people are going to want it that much more.
With women, in general, you want to be the “scarce and valuable guy.” The busier you appear to be, and the more active and interesting your social life seems to be, the more value women will place on you (and your time).
If she calls you on the phone to chat, and you tell her you can only talk for a minute because you’re heading out the door to a birthday party for your friend, she’ll know that you’ve got other options. You’re not the typical lonely, over-eager guy who clings to any woman who shows him interest. Her jealous, competitive instincts might begin to tingle (she’s thinking, is this “friend” having the birthday party a female?), but this is a good thing. If she thinks that you have a full social life that may involve other women, she’s going to want to win you.
I often tell hot Asian women that I need to go “take care of some business.” This sends the message that I’m a guy who is moving forward in life and is serious about my future; I won’t put important work aside to chat endlessly on the internet or engage in pointless back-and-forth texting.
While the girl might whine a little about not being able to have my undivided attention, as an Asian woman, she respects a man who is focused on his business and solidifying his future. It’s a future she will want to be a part of.
Dating Hot Asian Women – More Tips & Secrets
* Never “go dutch” with Asian girls, especially if it’s the first date! Having been raised in the post-feminist West, you might think that you’re “treating her as your equal” when you allow her to split the check and pay her share—but an Asian girl will just consider you cheap and never go out with you again.
* The more “normal” you are, the easier it will be for you to get Asian nookie. Asian culture didn’t go through the social revolution that America experienced in the 1960s, when men started wearing their hair long and getting in touch with their “feminine side,” women gained equal rights, and young people decided to “do their own thing” instead of following in the footsteps of their parents.
Since then, American (and Western) culture has been about the individual; you’re supposed to follow your dreams and think for yourself, right?
These concepts don’t really exist in Asian culture. Asian kids don’t get to decide what they want to be when they grow up; their family makes that decision. As adults, the men are expected to work and provide for their families, while the woman runs the household. You don’t see Asian guys graduating from college and taking a year off to go backpacking and soul-searching. Nor do you see Asian guys quitting the corporate rat-race to “follow their dreams.” As long as they have the respect of their families and peers, they’re happy. While you may think that this type of life sounds stifling, Asians seem to actually be a lot less stressed-out and depressed than your typical American.
So basically, the more you fit into the expectations that hot Asian women have of a “normal guy,” the easier it will be to score with her. I’m not saying that you should be bland and boring. “Normal,” to her, just means that you’re well-groomed, polite, you have a decent job, and you’ve got no major problems or drama in your life. You respect your parents, and you treat her with care and respect. Asian girls don’t go for the “bad boys” and “rebels” the way that American chicks do—and if you ask me, this is a good thing.
* Be a flirt. It’s okay! I love the fact that with hot Asian women, I can be a huge flirt. They’re suckers for romance and compliments. With American girls, you’ve got to hide your attraction. You’d never say to some hot American chick you met at a bar, “wow, you’re so beautiful.” Or, “you have gorgeous eyes.” She’d think you were a creep or a loser. But Asian girls really love this stuff! I can use an opening line like, “ Excuse me, but you’re very cute and I just want to say hello.” Or I’ll say to the girl, “you have the most beautiful eyes, my name is John.”
Asian girls love mushy, romantic TV shows, movies and love songs. The sappier, the better! All of us guys have a soft romantic side, and with hot Asian women you can really express it—and they’ll absolutely love you for it.
The Truth About Dating Asian Women
A lot of Western men find hot Asian women to be very attractive. For some men, it may seem to be very easy to attract these women. But there are others who are still new with the idea of dating these exotic beauties. Western guys have several things to consider and learn when it comes to dating Asian women.
Coming from two different worlds may certainly have an effect when it comes to dating Asian women. However, your cultural differences should not stop you from dating a beautiful Asian woman. You just need to have the right mindset to attract Asian women and be successful with it.
Tip #1 – Personal Hygiene
When it comes to dating hot Asian girls, you need to understand the real importance of excellent personal hygiene and being properly groomed too. By merely looking at these Asian women, you can already tell how much they value personal hygiene and grooming.
No matter where they are going, these women always want to look their very best. This is quite a different story when it comes to Western women, because they can go out of their homes wearing sweatpants and unkempt.
You will never catch an Asian women dressing up shabbily outside her home. They always want to look good and very presentable. So you have to get rid of your old shirts and worn-out jeans if you want to attract hot Asian women. Remember, it is okay to be a little overdressed instead of being underdressed if you are with hot Asian girls. If you have the chance to go out on a date with Asian girls, do not just wear tees, shorts and sneakers.
Tip #2 – Be organized
Asian women would love to go out with guys who seem to have everything under control. If you want to impress Asian ladies, you have to show them that you have an organized life and you can take care of them too. Do not give her the impression that you are a slacker. If you really want to attract hot Asian ladies, you need tell her about your plans, goals and your passions. Asian women would like to be with someone who can provide them a good life in the future. Stability is something that Asian men lack and this is your competitive edge over local guys.
A good indication that you are an organized individual is to be always on time. This is especially true if you are going out with her for the first time. In this manner you will not give her the impression that you are a lazy guy and irresponsible individual too. Asian ladies would not even dream of going out with guys who have no sense of direction in life.
Tip #3 – Learn about Asian culture
If you really want to make them feel that you are sincerely attracted to these beautiful and hot Asian women, learning about Asian culture is a big step to make. Do not make a mistake of asking her about her nationality. This is not a good way to impress her because she might feel that you treat her as an object.
Let her tell you more something about herself and you have to make sure that you avoid stereotyping Asian ladies. You will impress her by spending some time learning about different Asian nationalities and cultures. To totally impress the Asian girl that you want, learning her language or even the most common expressions will definitely help a lot in attracting Asian ladies.
There are many effective tips on dating Asian women that you can follow. If you truly want to succeed in attracting beautiful Asian women, do not tell her that you have fetish for Asian women. This tactic will surely make all your efforts go down the drain. You are not in any way attracting her towards you but you repel her away from you. Do not show too much obsession because the more you do that, the more you drive these Asian women away from you. You have to treat her just like any other women and show no signs of obsession no matter how irresistible and attractive these hot Asian women are.
Why Date Asian Women?
If you want to date Asian women, you basically have two options. You can date an Asian woman locally or abroad. Local Asian dating is much easier than dating an Asian in a foreign country. If you are looking for true love and companionship you just might have to go to the other side of the world to find the Asian woman for you.
Men all over the world desire the company of Asian Women. Asian Women are some of the most beautiful women in the whole world. The arduous trouble a man faces when he is searching for an Asian woman is where to meet Asian Women and how to draw an Asian woman.
Dating Western Asian women can work for both casual and serious relationships whereas dating Eastern Asian women is more centered around sincere long term relationships. Essentially, Asian women make a man feel the way he is supposed to!
This is the way men were born to feel, and it’s what we need in order to feel blissful and good about ourselves. Just ask any of your married buddies who have been beaten down and gelded by their ill-matured, domineering wives.
Wanting to date Asian women isn’t any weird “concupiscence,” nor does it suggest that you are in any way inadequate or unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race.
You’re inclined to think “outside the box” and not follow the same script that your friends do the guys who settle for whatever girl they can get, because they’re convinced that in order to date spectacularly beautiful women you need to be wealthy, far-famed or have movie-star good looks.
Would these men opt to be with a aroused, beautiful younger woman who loves them and gives them incredible sex? Of course they’d love that. But most men don’t think this is even doable, so they get married to a woman they feel they are “compatible” with. This usually just means that she is as dull and foreseeable as he is.
Look, we’re all driven by the same needs and tendencies that we shared with our ancestors 10,000 years ago. We are hard-wired to be men. We desire women who are soft and maidenly, and respond to our masculinity and strength. Asian women cater to this need like no other type of female.
There are many rightful reasons why Western men are drawn towards Asian women.
#1 They are sexy and attractive.
The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find irresistible.
It’s also interesting to note that the Asian face, because of the way it’s constructed, reveals less emotion than the faces of Caucasians. This makes Asian women “harder to read” than Caucasian women, who are known to express their feelings constantly (whether you want to hear them or not!).
In a way, this lends a sense of “mystery” to Asian women. This intensifies their allure since we, as men, are turned on by the “thrill of the hunt.”
Asian women also have great skin quality, and tend to develop less wrinkles than Caucasian woman as they get older — which is why Asian women can remain strikingly beautiful well into middle age.
#2 They are generally approachable.
I’m constantly approaching and chatting up women, and I’ve noticed that even the most beautiful Asian women are easier to approach than Western women. They love to be flirted with, too. When I’m in Asia, I can simply give a girl a friendly smile and say to them in their language: “You’re very cute, may I know your name?” I’ll almost always get a smile in return, and we’ll have a conversation. An American woman, on the other hand, might suspect that you’re “hitting on her” and not give you the time of day.
#3 They are effective homemakers, and take pride in managing the household.
A house run by an Asian woman is always going to be clean and organized. The meals will be prepared with care and love.
#4 They have a rich culture and heritage.
By dating Asian women, you’ll have the opportunity to learn more her fascinating culture — including its beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. This isn’t the case when you date a woman who grew up in the town next to yours. Being able to constantly learn new things about her culture, while sharing yours with her, can be a big advantage in a relationship. There is less chance of the two of you growing bored with each other. When you date an Asian woman and have genuine appreciation for her culture and background, there are new things for you to explore every day.
#5 Asian women place a high value on relationships and have unconditional love for their family.
It’s a fact that Asian women are close to their families and put great importance on their relationships with family members. This extends to their feelings towards the man they date. When you choose the right Asian woman to date or marry, you can expect her to be highly loyal to you. She will not do anything to damage the relationship. Having this type of devoted partner tends to bring out the best in you, as a man.
#6 We believe the attraction is mutual.
One of the reasons why Western men are interested in dating Asian women is, quite simply, because they’ve been told that Asian women love Western men! This is certainly true when you are spending time in Asia, but it’s still true (to a slightly lesser degree) when you are meeting Asian women in a Western country. The thought of this “mutual interest” is what compels a lot of guys to seek Asian girlfriends.
#7 When you date Asian women, interracial stigmas aren’t really a problem.
Western society is a lot more tolerant of other races than it was 100, or even 50, years ago. In America, we elected a black President, which would have been unthinkable only a decade ago. But racism does persist in different forms, and there is still some unease in the West when it comes to interracial relationships.
#8 Asian women have a spiritual core.
Many Asian women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. Asian women don’t need to do constant “soul searching” and fret about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.
#9 They have a hardworking nature.
Asian women typically start helping out their families from a very young age, waking up early to help out with house-hold chores. This is a dramatic difference from the way children are typically raised in Western countries. Also, they believe in working hard in order to provide a better future for their families.
#10 Asian women take great pride in their appearance.
Even if they’re only stepping out to shop for groceries, Asian women always want to look presentable. Going to the salon is a ritual. They feel it’s important to stay sexy for their man. This is a far cry from the way many Western women behave once they’re married and no longer need to worry about landing a husband. They start packing on the pounds, and would rather wear sweat pants and baggy shirts than the short skirts and tight-fitting jeans that sexy Asian women prefer.