Never end an interaction with an attractive Asian girl without getting her phone number. It doesn’t matter whether you know where she works and you can come find her again easily. Get her number! (If you do plan to return to where she works to see her, you can build her anticipation for your visit by texting with her in the meantime.)
Keep in mind, for Asian women (especially younger ones) their cell phone is like an extension of their arm. They’re constantly texting and using their phones and love being in constant communication with their extended social network. So, getting Asian women to give you their phone numbers is no big deal. To a lot of them, it’s really no different than adding you as a “friend” on their Facebook account.
In the Philippines—the text-messaging capital of the world—young people are so addicted to this habit that they will even send messages to random phone numbers to try to get new “text mates”—strangers they can text with! They consider it exciting to have a new foreigner friend who they can communicate with. (With Filipina women, you may find your only problem is trying to keep up with the text messages they are constantly bombarding you with!)
In order to ensure your success I want to give you a couple of sure-fire techniques that I use. But first, let me lay out some ground rules for playing the Phone Game with Asian women:
#1 Don’t ask permission to get her info (“Do you mind if I call you sometime?” or “Can I know your number?”). Instead, use the techniques below to get her information without ever having to “ask” for it. Make it seem like getting her contact info is just a normal part of the conversation.
#2 Make sure that in the period of time between your Opener and getting her number, you engage her in some fun, playful, interesting conversation and plant seeds. In other words, make an impression on her. When you text her—whether it’s ten minutes later, or two days later—she needs to remember who you are, and associate you with positive feelings.
#3 Unless there is a chance of this first interaction leading to sex (i.e., you’re talking to her in a bar or nightclub), you should be the one to end the interaction by getting her contact info and going on your way. Make it a practice to Open girls, Transition, talk to them for 5-10 minutes, and then get their contact info and make your exit. Do this on a daily basis, and before you know it you’ll have your own network of Asian women to hang out with.
You don’t want her to be the one saying, “Well it was nice meeting you, but I need to be going…” Rather, you should be the one who projects the image of a busy guy with other places to be. Make a great first impression, get her info, and plan on taking things to the next level when you see her again.
(Even if you meet her at a bar or a nightclub, and you’re going to try to take her home tonight, you should still get her contact info within the first 15 minutes—just so you make sure you have it. You never know; her friends might suddenly show up and drag her away, some dude she knows might show up and interrupt your flow, etc.)