Michael asks…
girls from thailand?
I am dating this 28 yr old from thailand. She claims to have a business marketing degree from somewhere in thailand, and says she is from Bangkok. I have gone out with her 2 times, and both she ducked my kiss. She said “its not thai culture.” She makes jokes about being “very expensive.” She likes to cook and seems like a good girl, smart. I wonder, if its possible she isn’t prude but rather she is a) prostitute or b)using me to acquire a green card by marriage? What are the odds of a thai chick coming to US if she was a hooker in Bangkok? Are most hookers stuck there for life? Are there a lot of prude girls or girls with values there? She says she is buddhist. I need to see the furry friend to determine if she is a slut. She also has some rule about me not going in her room yet. I doubt she is a prostitute. I think she just don’t want to get used or it is her tradition. When can I see her room and how long until I can score. Do I have to propose marriage??
Thank you very much Duck Danger and Whome. I was quite sure she just has values…which is great. At this point I don’t know if I prefer her to be virgin or not, though I doubt she is. It is very early on in our relationship, but when I left her last time she was holding my hands and somewhat playful.
She was raised by her grandparents because her parents had to go to work, doing what she didn’t want to tell me yet.
And yes she does have a beautiful smile. When I first hit on her, I did so in thai…I must have sounded somewhat like a fool, but it worked and she called me a few weeks later. I think someone hurt her at somepoint, which is too bad, but I won’t follow in that. I am not used to stating things so early, but I told her I didn’t plan on wasting her time, be it 1 month, 1 year, or even 10 years. i cant just come out and say I would marry her, but if she doesn’t turn out to be a tranny, I would have no problem. She is a good woman, wow thats rare in US.THAnks
Dean answers:
I am married to Thai women, and have been to Thailand many times. Let me explain a few cultural differences and answer your question about Thai prostitutes.
Only a few Thai women are prostitutes. And a Thai prostitute is different from an American prostitute in many, many ways.
First most Thai prostitutes are from the poorer class, many are from the rural areas where education availability is more limited. They become prostitutes for two reasons, to support their families, and to find a husband that will take them to a better life. They are usually not whores like prostitutes in the US; they are doing it because of a lack of options.
I know many men who married a Thai Bar Girl and lived very happy lives. (Not that it matters, but my wife was not a bar girl, I met her in the US)
However, if she is already in the states she is probably not a prostitute. If she was able to come to America with out marring a citizen she is probably from a middle class or higher family. If that is the case it is very likely that if she has never married she is still a virgin and very shy. In traditional Thai families if a young couple is caught even holding hands, the families may force them to marry.
Don’t let this discourage you though. There are very few families in Thailand that are still this strict. And the fact that she is dating an American shows she does not participate in that rigid tradition.
Thai women are wonderful, they can be very challenging, but the rewards can be very high. I always say that being with a Thai woman is like eating Thai food, Very spicy, but very delicious
Good luck and be patient, buy a Thai phrase book and try to learn some simple Thai phrases. That will make her smile. And Thai girls always have beautiful smiles.
Thomas asks…
question for white/caucasian girls that dates outside of their race?
who do you like better…
black guys or brown asians ?
i mean asians as in philippines/thailand/malaysia/cambodia etc
Dean answers:
I like girls better!
Steven asks…
why most Indian guy don’t like to date asian girls?
hi, i am from Thailand but i stayed in new Zealand for 6 year now and i really into Indian guy, but most Indian guy didn’t like me because of my race. All they say about me is ‘ oh, you’re Asian and you look ugly with your small eye’ and it is really hurt me when they said that. Most Indian guy in New Zealand interesting to date white girls more than Asian girls. My question is why most Indian guy don’t want to date Asian girl and what is wrong with Asian eye anyway?
Dean answers:
Fuck them. I am sure not all Indian guys our like this. The way Asian girls eye’s look are beautiful.
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