As for me, I’ve been living and working in Asia for years. I have visited many Asian countries, and I’ve dated and hooked up with literally hundreds of Asian women from every background you could imagine—from airline stewardesses, to college students, models, famous actresses and strippers.
Does this make me a “player?” The girls might tell you that I am. (The popular expression when I’m in the Philippines is that I’m a “butterfly”—always moving from one flower to the next. I playfully tell them “No, I’m a helicopter.” I move much faster!)
But whether the girl was from Hong Kong, Bangkok, Jakarta, Tokyo or Manila, I’ve shown every one of these Asian babes a great time—whether it was for one hot night, or spending two weeks with them on an exotic tropical island in the South China Sea. I don’t lie to them about my intentions. The truth is, I’m not ready to settle down (though some of these girls have been so gorgeous and sweet that I’ve been tempted).
Personally, I still feel there are too many good times with amazing women to be had…and one thing you’ll learn about these girls is that they can be very jealous. When they attempt to “lock me down” (or start nagging with me jealous accusations), that’s usually my cue to gracefully end the relationship and move on to the next.
It’s the endless options in Asia that enable a man like me to enjoy his bachelor status to the max. Back in my home country of America, most men my age got married long ago—and not because they fell madly in love with that one wonderful, perfect woman who they wanted to grow old with. It was because basically, they were tired of not getting laid and so when they found a woman to be with (usually through random luck, not because of their charms or efforts), they quickly threw in the towel and vowed to be a faithful, committed boyfriend and then husband.
Anything to keep from having to go back to the singles scene, where they found dating to be confusing and depressing…
I started feeling attracted to Asian women many years before I made my first trip to “the source” overseas. One of my first girlfriends, when I was in high school, was a beauty from the Philippines. My friends at the time, who were preppy white guys from the Northeast United States, didn’t understand why I’d go for a girl like that. As a football-playing jock, I was supposed to be dating the blonde-haired cheerleader-types with names like “Britney” and “Buffy.” But there was always something about slim, sexy Asian girls—whether they were light-skinned Chinese, Korean or Japanese girls, or brown-skinned Filipinas with long, silky black hair—that captivated me.
I had numerous Asian girlfriends throughout college and afterwards. My longest-term relationships were with a Japanese girl when I lived in New York City (4 years) and a Filipina girlfriend when I lived in Las Vegas (3 years). My love of Asian women was a big reason why I started traveling to Asia, and eventually moved myself, and my business, over to that part of the world.
I consider myself extremely fortunate to have been able to do this, and to be living in these times; prior to the Internet, I never would have had the ability to live overseas and operate my own business from anywhere in the world.
But, don’t think that my “game” isn’t equally sharp when I’m back in the U.S. I still spend a lot of time in cities like Los Angeles, Las Vegas and New York—where there are a ton of cute Asian women, and these techniques are still highly effective.