If an opportunity pops out to notch a date with an Asian girl, you surely don’t want to stumble in an embarrassing situation or falter with an inappropriate remark. You should present yourself effectively for you not to miss out an interesting encounter with some of the world’s gorgeous women. Learn the “not-to-do” moves and you’ll surely score up your chances in striking a date.
Avoid being rude.
Asian women are not fond of boastful act such as consistently nagging her about the correct pronunciation of English words or her accent. It is fairly important not to point out the obvious difference in body frame. As I said, this is pretty obvious; there is no need to be loud about this.
Also, avoid teasing specific physical attributes such as slanted eyes, small nose, and petite figure. It is natural for Asians to be slim and small, it’s part of their genetic make-up, and they certainly don’t need to be reminded. Some Asian women have the sense of insecurities towards Western women, so be sure to avoid stating the comparison. In simple terms, just be nice with your pick up lines.
Refrain from acting like a financial advisor.
Amidst the rapid development and modernization in Asia, it is still one of the poor regions in the world. However, do not be surprise to learn that they are willing to give their much deserved and hard-earned money to their family and in some cases to relatives. It is strong part of their culture to value family and regard them with a high degree of importance may it be emotionally or financially.
It is indeed common in various parts of Asia specifically for Filipino girls to leave the household and work in a urbanized area to earn sufficient amount of money and send it to their family in the province. It is a usual practice that usually compels young women to venture into bars, disco and restaurants. Bargirls typically earn an adequate amount of money that enables them to buy a lot and build a house, or even buy motorcycles. However, their way of living seems to be inadequate because almost all of their money is usually forwarded to their kinfolk.
In line with this, it important for you to understand that for some Asian women, it is pretty daunting and hard to save for their own. They inevitably prioritize the needs of the family. Be sensitive about this and if you are serious in settling down, you definitely need to consider the amount of money you’re going to spend, not just for her, but also for her family. Keep in mind, don’t give an advice when not ask.
Avoid negative remarks on her family.
Unlike the Western connotation of being immensely independent and individualistic, Asians do have the extreme tendency to be dependent and keenly influence by their parents. They are drawn to the situation of the family and its member. Also, they share a unified approach to a problem; in short, the dilemma of one member is shared by all, regardless of aspect. In Asia, it is hard for women to pursue a sustainable and growing career due to the fact that they are figuratively carrying a huge load of baggage behind them. It is fairly important for you to acknowledge the extreme bond they share with their kin or else, you’ll surely fall flat and be viewed as disrespectful.
Don’t make her extremely jealous.
You’ll be surprise that Asian girls can be immensely jealous and they usually react in a very unappealing manner, which sometimes may even tend to be irritating.
Take note not to mention your previous dates with Asian women or you’ll surely be bombarded with questions, that no answer of yours will leave her satisfied. In the end, it will make her feel doubtful and insecure. These women are somehow sensitive to such things, be sensitive also.
Avoid being late.
Similar to the Western way of adherance to punctuality, Asian women highly regards promptness as an important factor that spells proper decorum and good manners. However, this case does not apply to Filipino women, it is very rare for them to be striking the exact time. They are usually late for atleast an hour.
Don’t present yourself as a weakling. Although Asian men are physically smaller and lean, they tend to handle their emotions and feelings of resentment or despair effectively on their own. Moreover, it is a usual tendency for them to be irrationally jealous especially if they finally get a girlfriend they courted for a long time. As a man, Asian women want you to be emotionally stable and rational when handling conflicts and problems. If you turn out to be more emotional than them, then all bets are off.
Avoid being inconsistent.
As with any other women, trust is highly essential in building and maintaining a relationship. Without this, you won’t go anywhere farther than a slap when it comes to Asian women. They value the vital existence of trust between you and her. Refrain from canceling planned trips, date or even the small stuff. It is equally important for you to be consistent with what you say and subsequently act.
Stop mingling with other girls.
Asian women are not fond of the Western way of multiple dating and testing the waters.
Relationship commitment and security is highly important to them. Their culture somehow depicts a sense of insecurities that makes them suspicious and extremely instinctive when they sense that something is wrong.