Asian cultures have a less contemporary view on relationships compared to the West. It is somewhat uncomplicated to promise a lot but on reflection, we might see the intricacy and nuisance of living up to our promises.
The struggle for cultural reception is a fight that that will tie you, no matter what country you live in. There will be the chauvinistic comments that you’ll have to deal with. The language barriers, and the malevolence and glares of other Asian women as you stroll together. These things are like glue if you are attentive. Some people have a concept that dating an Asian woman is about supremacy. This is a ridiculous belief, probably contrived by the narrow-minded hypocrite that we all come across from time to time. We are swift to judge too often. On the contrary, beautiful Asian women are not just stunning, they are also smart and independent.
They are out spoken and revel in the chance to talk their minds. Heaven aid you if you are on the receiving end. Nevertheless, the man is the chief of the family circle. Many women in the West wish their man were more of a man sometimes. Of course, that doesn’t mean supremacy, it means a distribution of task, and recognizing the differences between man and women.
If you are interested in meeting beautiful Asian women and want to know how to create chitchat with girls in any situation, first I want to ask you one very important question:
When it comes to women, do you believe in abundance, or do you believe in scarcity? This is the key factor that separates the “babe magnets” from the regular, frustrated guys.
Guys who have a scarcity state of mind suppose that single, attractive Asian women are in very short supply. Therefore, they feel they need to run after women, try to astonish them, and expend money. Once they are into a girl, they will do whatever thing it takes to date them!
“Scarcity guys” are always being hung up on one fastidious Asian girl. In addition, if the girl rejects a man, he feels aggravated and miserable, because he worries that these opportunities rarely come along. He tells himself that he “blew his big chance.”
Then, there are the guys who believe in abundance. These guys know that the world has provided us with an endless supply of fun, sexy, single women. (This is the truth, when you have a healthy level of self-confidence and the skills to meet new women.)
These guys know that where they exist, and the places where they hang out, contain any number of great alternatives for having amusing and gathering girls. They know how to come within reach of beautiful Asian women and form connections with them.
The “abundance attitude” guy knows there are factually an infinite number of women who want to be with him! (In addition, this is very true if he is able to make occasional trips to Asia.) Consequently, there is no reason for him to be anxious about finding a girlfriend right now, or worrying about whether a particular girl will ever return his phone call.
In certainty, the world we live in is FILLED with prospects especially if you own the right level of assurance and an understanding of how to magnetize Asian women (instead of having to always chase them).
The other element of having an abundance mentality is that YOU become “scarce” to women. In other words, you are not always available to them.
Being a “scarce resource” to women means:
• You don’t give one woman all of your time and attention. You never act clingy or needy. This type of guy repels Asian women, because the men in their culture keep their emotions in check. “Real” men in Asia don’t whine, complain or act needy.
• You don’t lavish gifts on her, or spend an unnecessary amount of money on dates. You know that having her meet you for coffee or drinks is much better for a first date than taking her out to an expensive dinner.
• You’re not available to talk to her on the phone or chat on the internet whenever she is in the mood, or see her any night of the week that she’s free to see you.
Once you start meeting new women on a regular basis and getting them attracted to you, and then limit your availability so they don’t always have access to you, you’ll be amazed by how much harder they are going to work for your attention.
When dating Asian women: spend time with a girl, give her your complete, undivided attention. Make her feel special. But when not with her, let her know that you’re a busy guy with things to do and business to handle. She’s not going to get a response whenever she texts your phone to see what you’re up to. Make it clear to women that your time is valuable and limited. (This also makes it easier to “juggle” a few different girls, if you wish to; they won’t complain about you not always being available, as long as you establish the fact that you are busy man.)
The other benefit is that women will appreciate the time you do spend with them, because they know you have a lot of other things you could be doing.
There is a saying that salesmen and marketers employ, which is called “perceived value.” This means is if you make the discernment that your product is limited and in short supply whether it’s factual or not people are going to want it that much more. With women, you want to be the “scarce and valuable guy.” The busier you come out to be, and the more vigorous and motivating your social life seem to be, the more value women will place on you (and your time).
If she calls you on the phone to converse, and you tell her you can only talk for a minute because you’re heading out the door to a birthday party for your friend, she’ll know that you’ve got other options. You are not the archetypal lonesome, over-eager guy who grips to any woman who shows him attention. Her envious, aggressive instincts might begin to tingle (she’s thinking, is this “friend” having the birthday party a female?), but this is a excellent thing. If she thinks that you have a jam-packed social life that may involve other hot Asian women, she’s going to want to win you.
It is important to tell a girl that you are extremely busy and do not have time to mingle on chat and mobile texting. You need to present yourself as a capable man who has a long-term outlook for the future.