The Kitten And The String

| January 19, 2012
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asian-beautiesWhen I coach men on how to be more attractive to women, I often use an analogy: “the kitten and the string.” Imagine dangling a piece of string over a kitten, just out of its reach. How does the kitten react? It will jump up on its hind legs and try with all its might to get its paws on the string. When you tease the kitten by lowering the string a little bit, and then jerking it up, farther out of its reach, the kitten becomes even more obsessed with grabbing it.

Now, you drop the string so that the kitten can have it. Is the kitten thrilled with its new toy? Maybe for a second or two. Then, once it realizes the string is actually no big deal, the kitten loses interest and walks away from it.

When you are trying to make a woman feel attraction, you want to be the string dangling just out of reach. Let her think maybe you’re into her, and then back off a little. This way, you are driving up the sexual tension—and her desire.

A few quick ways to use this principle:

When you approach a girl and start a conversation with her, you should be the one to end the interaction first. In other words, you want to chat with her for a few minutes, make a positive impression, and then get her phone number, wish her a good day, and excuse yourself because you have other things to do.

Most guys, when they meet Asian single women and strike up a conversation, whether it’s at the park or at a nightclub, are like dogs trying to hold onto a bone. They will crowd her personal space and keep trying to talk to her about anything until she starts to feel uncomfortable and makes up a reason to extract herself from the conversation.

Instead, chat with her for a few minutes, get her smiling, get her phone number, and then tell her you’ve got to be going but you’ll text her later.

(The exception to this rule would be a situation where it’s possible for you to take her home that night, such as in a bar or nightclub. Then you can try to take things all the way.)

Guys who are masculine, ultra-confident and socially savvy behave this way around women. They don’t follow women around and try to monopolize their time and attention. These guys have other things to do (and presumably, other beautiful Asian women to hang out with).

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Dean Cortez is an international playboy and the creator of "Mack Tactics," which is widely considered to be the #1 system ever created for creating attraction with women and achieving your ultimate dating life.

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