The Easy Way To Be Attractive To Hot Chinese Girls
Hot Chinese girls can seem like a mystery to Western guys who haven’t tried dating them before. Their ways, and their attitude towards dating and relationships, is quite distinct from European girls or girls from other parts of the world. And then there is a rich sense of cultural heritage that Chinese women have, which further differentiates them from all other women. Globalization has brought about more of a blending of cultures between different lands, but when it comes to meeting and seducing hot Chinese girls, I can still give you some specific ideas and mistakes to avoid.
The first thing to keep in mind is that hot Chinese girls are used to guys taking them out on “traditional” dates and trying to impress them by spending a bunch of cash, and trying to talk about their own positive qualities in an attempt to impress her. The truth is, she’s heard all of it before in a great many variations and versions. Keep in mind the saying “less is more.”. The less you try to impress her, the more the Chinese girl will feel curious about yhou. Try listening to her and getting her to talk about herself. Downplay the amount of interest you show her. This frames you as a challenge — a guy who is NOT easily impressed — and hot Chinese girls will find this intriguing and different.
You should not try to “date” a Chinese girl in the normal Western way. That means, don’t try the traditional dating moves: spending money taking her to dinner and a movie, getting a goodnight kiss (at most), and then no more calls from her.
This is what everyone else is doing and it comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. All the other guys who want her have tried this route. Try something easier, cheaper and less conventional. Meet up with her for drinks, or a cup of coffee. She is less prepared and expectant. This way, the date won’t be burdened with expectations. You’ll act more relaxed, and she will loosen up and enjoy the conversation more.
Every guy tries to get hot Chinese girls out on dates and impress them with a detailed “rap” or speech moves. The truth is, she has heard it all before in many varieties and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more the Chinese girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her to talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This makes you seem very different from all of the other guys who have taken her on dates and tried to win her approval. Be a bit naughty. Throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Do not over do it, but do not show her you are overly impressed with her looks. Naughty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are. Being a little bit of a “bad boy” can go a long way with sexy Chinese girls.
Don’t forget that hot Chinese girls have a lot of admirers and suitors. Most of these guys arer total wusses, whcih is a turn-off to a Chinese woman. So, she’ll want to test you a little bit to see whether you’re like all the others. Do not just give in to every one of her whims. Sometimes you can playfully yet firmly resist or refuse her.
If she knows that you are admired and wanted by other hot Chinese girls, even better. So don’t spend all your time with one. Widen out and let them know you are trying to decide and have a lot of admirers. When you carry yourself with this attitude, you’re sure to get results and meet even MORE hot Chinese girls — and you’ll make it seem easy!
The next thing to understand is that Chinese have very strong ties to their families. If you meet a Chinese lady you would likely notice that family bounds are more respected within them. So get to know more about her family. Have an interest in her family, make a very good impression on them, and it will surely increase your chances of success.
In Chinese society, honesty is also a quality that is considered highly important. Men of honor never abandon their responsibilities or break their commitments. If you wish to make an impression on hot Chinese girls, you have to prove to them that you can be such a man of honor.