Few More Tips on How to Attract Asian Babes

If you’re going to really win her heart, you’ve got to get along with her friends and family, and include them in your life. Asian women value the opinions of friends and family to a high degree. If they all like you, you’re in the door; if they don’t like you, it’s a difficult obstacle to overcome, and it might cause her to simply stop seeing you.

When you meet Asian women for the first time, and she’s with girlfriends, you’ve got to make a great impression on all of them. Rather than try to isolate the girl you like, treat it as a group conversation. Express interest in her friends, and win them over.

I used this tactic recently at a nightclub; I met a beautiful Asian girl, who was there with a friend of hers who was overweight and frumpy-looking. Obviously, the frumpy girl was used to guys hitting on her hot friend and shutting her out of the conversation. I took the opposite approach. I brought the frumpy friend onto the dance floor and showed her a fun time. The hot girl was impressed by that.

Later, instead of trying to bring the hot girl straight back to my place, I invited them both to join me for drinks at a cool, low-key bar. In the end, I got the hot girl to come home with me, and it was largely due to the fact that I charmed the unattractive friend. If I hadn’t done so, she would have probably felt neglected and tried to get me out of the picture.

Regarding an Asian woman’s family, if she invites you to meet them, it’s a very good sign. If you have strong feelings for her, accept her invitation and don’t express any hesitation. (I don’t suggest agreeing to meet her family if you don’t have intentions of seriously dating her; when you break up with her, it will cause her to lose “face” with her family—and will only reinforce any negative opinions they may have of foreigners.)

Ask your girl what a suitable gift would be for you to bring to their home. (Usually this will be some type of food, or a dessert—this get-together is always going to center around a big home-cooked meal.) Then, just relax, enjoy yourself, and be a good listener. I’ve never been “interrogated” by an Asian woman’s family. More likely, they’ll be very curious about you, excited to meet you, and they will be very gracious hosts.

An Asian babe would want you to have a good relationship with your own family. Never speak about your family to her in a disrespectful way. If you have a rift with one of your siblings or parents, make sure you heal the relationship before you bring your girlfriend to meet them. If she sees that your family does not respect you, she will lose respect for you. If they make her feel welcome, she’ll be thrilled and feel that much more bonded to you.

Don’t give her any indication that you’re a “player,” a “playboy,” or only interested in casual flings. Most beautiful Asian women will frequently assume that as a Westerner, you’re only interested in sex. They’ll test you and make comments, playfully accusing you of being a “playboy” and asking you about your “other girls.” But they take this stuff seriously. If you give her the impression that you’re a player, she may lose interest.

You don’t need to state your desire to get married and start a family right away, but you need to express to her that you have a serious side that values honesty and commitment. A lot of Asian women these days are “liberated” (they love shows like Sex & The City as much as white women do), and they’re up for one-night stands and casual dating. But they want to feel that this relationship can go deeper—that you have the capacity to love one woman and commit to her.

Just don’t expect a “casual dating situation,” where she is one of the girls you have sex with on an occasional basis, to last long. What she’s really looking for is a guy to get serious with. I’ve found that after a week or two of casually hooking up, Asian women tend to start getting jealous and insist on spending more time with you, or they’ll cut you off completely because they know it isn’t going anywhere. They don’t handle the “casual” thing particularly well. This just means that you’re going to have to offer her some commitment and reassurance, or else stop seeing her and move on to the next. If you want to play the field over in Asia, and you’ve got some “game,” you can do so to your heart’s content.

To have some karaoke skills will surely make you an Asian babe magnet. In all of my travels, I have yet to meet a person in Asia who doesn’t get love karaoke; even those who don’t sing will happily spend hours listening to others belt out songs. Birthdays, weddings, holidays…in the Philippines, especially, every social gathering involves singing. Every night of the week, into the wee hours, thousands of karaoke joints—from high-end, Japanese-style clubs, to tiny hole-in-the wall dumps—blare music.

Karaoke is a huge part of Asian culture and social life. Most Westerners feel embarrassed about their inability to sing well—but this never holds back an Asian person! Even if they’re completely tone-deaf (and many are), they’ll sing their hearts out. You don’t need to be Frank Sinatra on the microphone. Figure out a few easy songs that are within your vocal range, practice them at home, and make these your “go-to” songs whenever you’re out at the karaoke joints.

Two of my favorites are “Wonderful Tonight” by Eric Clapton, and “Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis. These songs are slow and pretty easy to sing, yet Asian women find them deeply romantic. (Asian women go crazy when you sing famous, mushy love songs—don’t attempt to do hard rock, or, God forbid, rap.)

The mere fact that you’re willing to grab the microphone and give it a try will win you big points with her. And if you do have a nice singing voice, you’re as good as gold. The girl you’re with will be the envy of every other woman in the place, and she’ll beam with happiness.

If you want to take your “karaoke game” to the next level, buy a karaoke player and hook it up to your TV at home. This gives you the perfect reason to throw parties and invite your Asian friends.

Own some high-tech gadgets and understand how to operate them. Asian women, in general, have an affinity for gadgets—particularly cell phones, mp3 players, digital cameras, etc. The more sophisticated Asian women understand that being “computer literate” is essential for succeeding in today’s business world. So, you can score points with Asian girls—and have common interests to talk about—if you come across as a tech-savvy guy. (Of course, being handy with computers, webcams and taking digital pictures is also necessary if you’re going to take full advantage of Asian dating websites.)

If you are really determined to attract Asian babe, you may want to take these advices seriously. Asian women are not really hard to please; you just have to show them that you are willing to exert a little effort to win her attention.

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