Asian Dating Tip: How To “Feng Shui” Your Home

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Here’s another cool aspect of Asian culture that you should know about, in order to better understand Asian women. Feng Shui, invented thousands of years ago by the Chinese, is the art of arranging objects in a way that supposedly creates a harmonious “energy flow.” The basic idea behind Feng Shui is that the way we feel and act is dictated in large part by the environment which surrounds us. Objects contain either negative or positive energy, and by learning how to properly organize what surrounds us, we can improve our lives and health.

Many Asians believe this is very important for living a healthy and prosperous life, as the proper Feng Shui will avoid or block negative energies which would otherwise be harmful.

Today, Feng Shui has become trendy among some Westerners, who hire special interior decorators to ensure that their homes or offices are arranged in a way that will supposedly improve their health and happiness and maximize their earning potential. Although this may sound to you like a bunch of “New Age” nonsense, many Asian women are familiar with this practice and will note the symbolism of the way certain objects in your home are placed.

Here are some Feng Shui tips which you can work into your home décor. Following these simple rules will not only make Asian women feel more comfortable and compatible with you. The subject of Feng Shui, and your interest in it, also provides a great topic for you to talk to her about—and shows her that you are a person who cares about yourself and maintaining a healthy, harmonious, successful lifestyle.

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• First of all, clear out the clutter. It goes without saying that Asian women like a clean, orderly household. Plus, Feng Shui dictates that the Goddesses of Love will not enter a dirty home. (If you bring an Asian girl home to a messy, unorganized house, it’s going to be hard for her to see you as “boyfriend material.”)

• Never keep any dead flowers around the house. This is a sign that you don’t care about relationships. If you want to step up your game, always keep some fresh flowers in a vase in your living room. (Feng Shui or not, this is a classy move.)

• Don’t have any dripping faucets or a leaky toilet. This symbolizes your money and prosperity being drained away.

• Pictures of your family should be placed on your East wall. This means that you respect your elders and relatives and wish long life and happiness for them. (If you’re willing to go all the way with Feng Shui, you literally need to use a compass to figure out where to place things. Aside from that, my advice on this is that you should hang pictures on your walls of friends and family—but they should always show you in a positive, healthy state of mind. Pictures of you engaged in a physical activity are best. No pictures of you drunk, hoisting beers with your buddy at the bar.)

• Buy an aquarium. This means that you want all the bad luck to hit the fish and not the members of your family or your loved ones. Plus, aquariums make an amazing conversational topic—and a reason for you to bring girls back to your place. (You tell the girl you met at the bar, “You’ve got to see this new fish I bought, I call him ‘King Kong’ because he’s way bigger than the other fish…but he’s super shy. It’s really cute actually, he actually swims away and hides when the little tiny fish pick on him….you’ve got to see him…”) This stuff works amazingly well when you need to create a reason to bring a girl back to your pad.

• Light up the southwest corners of your house with red lamps or lava lamps. This is a sign that your heart is open to love.

• Keep a small fountain somewhere in your home. This shows that you are welcoming a greater flow of love and money into your life.

• Also keep a “prosperity frog” by your front door, facing into your home. This is a small three-legged frog made out of brass, jade or some other material with a Chinese coin in its mouth. It’s supposed to bring you good luck, prosperity and longevity.

If your city or town has a “Chinatown” district or an area with many Asian shops and restaurants, it should be easy for you to find these items. They’re inexpensive; most Asian households have them.

The Feng Shui inside your bedroom is particularly important if you want to set the mood for relaxation…and romance. (Some Asian women arrange their bedrooms a certain way to improve their love lives and their chances of getting pregnant!)

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Here are some tips on turning your bedroom into a “love chamber” that Asian women will hopefully want to spend many nights in…

• Don’t keep a TV, computer or exercise equipment in your bedroom. This supposedly kills the “positive energy.” (Removing these distractions also forces the two of you to focus on each other, which is always a good thing. When you bring her to the bedroom, there shouldn’t be any need for you to watch TV together…it’s time to close the deal.)

• The quality of air in your bedroom should always be clean and fresh. Open your windows regularly, or use an air purifier. Keeping plants in your bedroom is not good feng shui, unless your bedroom is fairly large and the plants are located far from the bed.

• According to the teachings of Feng Shui, light is the most important nutrient and a powerful manifestation of energy. Your home should be well-lit and you should allow as much natural light in through the windows as possible. But when it’s time for romance, you should have your lights on a dimmer so that you can control the brightness. And once you are with her in your bedroom, the best move is to forget the lights and use candles: have two pink or red candles side-by-side on the table next to your bed. Light ‘em, chill with her on your bed, and enjoy what comes next.

• Hang up some imagery or artwork representing lovers. (Tasteful imagery, nothing pornographic!) Other good imagery: anything that includes ducks, doves or swans.

• Use soothing colors. The best feng shui colors for the bedroom are considered the so-called “skin colors,” which range from pale white to rich browns. Choose colors within this range when you select your bedroom décor.

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It’s not necessary for you to practice Feng Shui, although you may find that by making some of these adjustments to your home, it will begin to feel like a more peaceful environment. If you’re a messy person by nature, this also gives you a good reason to clean up your pad (and keep it clean), and put some more thoughts into your decor.

Even if you think Feng Shui is a bunch of nonsense, it’s still critical for you to maintain a clean, organized home that women will feel welcome in. But practicing some very basic Feng Shui elements will give you some very cool things to talk about with girls who visit your home, and show them that you’re a guy who cares about health, happiness and success. And that earns you huge points with Asian women!

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